Can’t Stand

What do you do when you’re married to someone you can’t stand being around? They do and say things everyday that just put a wedge between the two of you. It is recommended to first take care of your mind. If you don’t, you may go into deep depression or deep anger. Neither will yield the desire you want.

FIRST! – Focus on YOU and not on US. Focus on doing things that you enjoy doing in life. Focus on doing things that bring you to a peaceful. Find something you enjoy doing that takes you to an engaged place. A place where your mind is preoccupied. A place where your thoughts are focused. It could be carpentry, painting, singing, drawing, fishing, shopping, watching comedy or action. Whatever you like to do that will cause you to be focus. It may be your phone games. Whatever it is, do it and relax.

You must answer this question.

Why you can’t stand being around your spouse?

Is it their appearance? Smell? Sneaky? Waster? Behavior? Words? Neglect? What is the reason -YOU can’t stand your spouse? Why does your spouse get on your nerves? What is it? SELAH – THINK ABOUT IT.

When you know they what, then ask yourself, why is the “what” bothering you? Is it something you don’t like or think your spouse should do or say? Is it just wrong? Is it something a husband or wife shouldn’t do? Think. why is the “what” bothering you?

How can the “what” and “why” be fixed?
If only one of them can be fixed, which can and how to fix it and why can’t the other be fixed?
If neither can be fixed why?

HELP A SPOUSE!

What advice do you give to a person in that kind of situation?